Monday, June 30, 2008

How Can You Hurt The Ones You Love?

Sounds kinda cliche', I know, but it's real talk. I'm guilty of it, sometimes it has been consciously, other times unconsciously, nontheless someone I love has gotten hurt. In a perfect world we could do and say whatever we wanted without the risk of hurting our loved ones, but that it not our reality. I often wonder if we love someone is it better to be transparent and risk hurting them or interalize to protect thier feelings? Someone I love chose the first option... that shit hurt... but in hindsite it helped. Perhaps the person that choses to be transparent is more brave... I don't know. Either way there are going to be consequences...that will elicit pain internally and externally.

3 comments:

Romeyo said...

This is really interesting and sounds like you need to get your co-pay up and really talk to someone about this....I feel your pain...because this seem very difficult to deal with...God Speed and Good Luck!

Ms. T said...

Well Mr. Romeyo,

I will keep that in mind...

Romeyo said...

Please do...because you look like a winner or taker...so, as beauty is skin deep the after effect is deeper....Hurting ones you love is not an easy task and is difficult either way...Love HURTS!